The Power of Praying Together as Husband and Wife

Hey ladies! In our crazy, busy lives, finding quality time to connect with our husbands can sometimes feel like a mission impossible. But guess what? There’s a super simple yet powerful way to strengthen our marriages: praying together! This practice not only brings us closer to each other but also to Jesus, making our spiritual journey as a couple so much richer.

Why Praying Together Is a Game-Changer

Marriage is a big deal in our Catholic faith. It’s not just about sharing chores and watching Netflix together; it’s a sacred partnership. The Church teaches that marriage is a covenant, a lifelong promise we make to love and support each other (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1601). Praying together is like the secret sauce that makes this partnership even stronger.

Saint John Paul II, who had so much wisdom on family life, said, "The family that prays together stays together." How sweet is that? When we pray as a couple, we’re inviting God’s love and grace into our marriage, helping us grow closer and stronger.

Our Little Prayer Routine

In my own marriage, my husband and I have found the most blessings and answered prayers when we commit to praying the rosary daily. Seriously, the rosary is such a beautiful, simple prayer. It’s a time for us to hit pause on life, reflect, and connect with Jesus and the Blessed Mother.

Praying the rosary together has become our special time. It not only brings us closer to God but also to each other. We get to share our intentions and talk about what’s on our hearts. Plus, it often sparks some amazing conversations, helping us understand each other better and grow closer as a couple.

Balancing Couple and Personal Prayer Time

While praying together is super important, having our own personal prayer time is just as crucial. Each of us needs to nurture our individual relationship with Jesus. After all, He is our true savior, not our spouse. 

This balance is key because it reminds us that our job in marriage is to help each other grow closer to the Lord. Keeping up with our personal prayer lives ensures that our relationship with God stays at the center of everything we do. And when we’re grounded in our faith, we can bring even more love, grace, and wisdom into our marriages.

Fun Ways to Pray Together

1. Daily Rosary: Try setting aside time each day for the rosary. It’s a lovely way to meditate on the lives of Jesus and Mary while praying together. We personally love our Eden Set from West Coast Catholic to keep at our bedside. 

2. Mass Dates: Make going to Mass together a regular thing, and if you can, check out daily Mass. Sharing the Eucharist is such a powerful experience.

3. Share Your Prayers: Take turns sharing your prayer intentions. Bringing your worries and hopes before the Lord together is so bonding.

4. Bible Time: Read and reflect on Scripture together. Talking about God’s Word can lead to some deep and meaningful discussions.

5. Prayer Walks: Go for walks and use the time to pray and chat about your faith. It’s a peaceful and refreshing way to connect.

Let’s Wrap It Up

Praying together as husband and wife is a total game-changer. It strengthens your marriage, deepens your relationship with God, and brings you closer to each other and to Jesus. And while keeping up with your own personal prayer life is essential, the time you spend praying with your spouse is invaluable.

Remember, your vocation in marriage is to help each other grow closer to the Lord. By making prayer a regular part of your life, both individually and as a couple, you invite God’s grace into your marriage, letting His love guide and transform you.